Tell her, “I need some space to work on my music,” or “I want more time for online gaming. ”
You could also tell her you already have plans the next time she invites you to do something. Say something like, “I’m sorry! I already have plans with Alex this Friday. ”
“Claire’s speech was so interesting. ” “Did you hear about Em’s award? I’m mega impressed!” “T. J. ’s jacket is killer. ”
“Is it still raining outside?” “Can you give me directions?” “Your coffee smells good. What flavor is that?” “Is the book you’re reading interesting?”
Give someone a ride. Assemble a piece of furniture. Tutor a friend. Help a friend move.
Try telling her about a problem you have. You might say, “I really need to get my bag organized. ” When she says, “I can help. ” Say, “No thanks. My friend is going to help me. ”
You could say, “I have to take care of something after work on Friday. Toby’s helping me out,” or “I’ve had so much on my mind lately. But let’s not talk about that. How are you?” If you’re in a relationship, make the secret a surprise for her. That way, she’ll be super jealous but you’ll get instant forgiveness when you reveal the surprise. You don’t want her to actually be insecure in your relationship.
Since Cancers are super suspicious, she’ll probably wonder if you’re giving affection to someone else. That’ll make her super jealous.
If you’re always reaching out to her, wait for her to contact you first. Next time you see her, pretend like you didn’t see her there.
“I know you like the Avengers, but I think Batman is way better. ” “You spend so much time practicing your flute. My friend plays guitar and doesn’t have to practice so much. ” “I don’t know why you like Machine Gun Kelly. Post Malone is so much better. ”
Don’t use someone just to get back at your ex. Only go out with someone you’re genuinely interested in dating. If you’re not totally over your ex, stick to casual dating for the time being. Wait until you’re over your ex to try to get serious. If you don’t have a new partner yet, say that you’re happier alone than you ever were with her. Additionally, fill social media with posts of you having fun without her.
