He may even comment on your lips while he’s looking at them. If he compliments your lips, or your eyes, he’s ready for the kiss. His eyes are a great indicator, but so are his facial expressions. Pay attention to the faces he makes when you are together. [2] X Research source
He may start to play with his hair, touch his face, or even bite his bottom lip. [3] X Research source Distance is a great indicator of desire as well. If he keeps finding ways to get closer to you, you should feel comfortable kissing him. [4] X Research source
Whispering also requires him to move in closer to you, making it easier to kiss. [6] X Research source Speaking in a softer tone is an especially good sign if the two of you are in public. He’s trying to get your attention and hold it, to make you feel like you two are the only people in the room. [7] X Research source
He may also wink at you, which is almost definitely a sign that he’s thinking of kissing you. [9] X Research source
Don’t cross your arms. Crossing your arms may give him the impression that you’re not ready for a kiss. Instead, keep your body open and facing his. [11] X Research source Smile at him to let him know you’re comfortable. If you’re relaxed, then he’ll feel less anxious about making a move to kiss you. [12] X Research source
Once you start kissing, you may want to keep kissing for a while, so it’s important to be in a spot where you feel safe. [14] X Research source
It might feel a little awkward at first, so don’t stare too long while kissing. Just take a moment to look at your boyfriend while kissing, and then shut your eyes. [16] X Research source Take a break between kissing to re-establish eye contact with your boyfriend. [17] X Research source
Relax and work together. Try not to think about anything other than the kiss. If you get tense, the kiss will suffer. [19] X Research source Don’t breathe through your mouth and into his. Breathe through your nose when you kiss. [20] X Research source
Don’t get carried away if it’s just your first kiss. Take some time to appreciate the power of a kiss on its own. Keep the touching simple and affectionate. [22] X Research source
Laugh at his jokes, smile at him, do anything you can to put his mind at ease. Making a move, even if it isn’t the first, is risky. Guys don’t always like to take chances with their egos and self-esteem. Do what you can to encourage him to make a move. [24] X Research source
If you have chapped lips, use some lip balm. Make your lips appealing so he’ll want to kiss you. [26] X Research source
