How To Know That A Girl Hates You 13 Steps With Pictures

Crinkling her nose could be an expression of disgust at your presence (unless, of course, there is a bad smell). Narrowed eyes, or eye rolling when you’re around (especially if you’re speaking). If she doesn’t make eye contact with you that could mean she is shy, but it could also be an indicator of dislike.

Arms crossed over the chest is often considered a closed off gesture. There’s a possibility if she stands or sits with her arms crossed across her chest when she’s around you that she’s trying to keep away from you. Of course, some people simply stand that way, so the gesture, taken by itself, might not mean anything. Another good thing to look for is if she’s consistently turning away from you. If she’s not meeting your eyes and angling her body in a direction away from you, it could be that she wants you to leave her alone and she’s seeking some way to escape from you. Keep in mind that there aren’t any universal, definitive body language cues that can tell you what a girl is thinking. Some women are proactive, while others are simply more passive or reserved.

If you both are at a party and you are trying to get across to her, but keep finding her friends running interference and stopping you from talking to her, that’s a pretty good sign that she wants nothing to do with you. If you two are somewhere by yourselves and her friends keep popping to drag her away, or interrupt, that’s another pretty good sign that she might dislike you and her friends are trying to protect her from having to be around you. If you see her smirking and laughing with her friends while looking at you, that’s another good sign that there’s some dislike on her side. Of course she might not be looking at you, but if it happens consistently, and with the other signs, that’s a pretty clear signal of dislike.

Every time you try to talk to her, she pulls a Houdini and disappears. This means that the minute you try to speak to her, she’s managed to be somewhere else. Now, if this only happens once or twice that doesn’t mean anything, but if it happens more than that, it’s likely that she doesn’t like you, or is upset about something. She never answer when you call or text. This is a big one, because it’s pretty easy to shoot back even a quick text in reply, but if she never replies to you, or if she replies only in one word answers, that’s a good sign that something in up.

If she blows off plans by not showing up and doesn’t say anything, or apologize, again she probably doesn’t want to spend time with you. [4] X Research source If she’s constantly ‘forgetting’ plans, then she isn’t wanting to spend time with you. Some people are pretty flaky, but not that flaky. Remember, this doesn’t necessarily mean that she hates you. You might annoy her by pestering her to do things with you, or she might be completely indifferent to you.

Using a flat tone of voice when she talks to you means she’s probably not that keen on the conversation (unless of course, she always speaks in monotone). Usually when a girl is with someone she likes, there will be inflections in her voice. Sarcasm can be a great way for her to tell you that she doesn’t like you without actually having to do so. It’s all about the inflections in her voice. If she says something like, “That’d be fun” if you ask her out to coffee, notice how she says it. Couple this with facial expressions and body language and you should get a pretty good idea how she’s actually feeling.

If she’s replying to your questions and conversation with one word answers, either you’re talking way too much, or she’s not very interested in having this conversation. If she never initiates conversation and it’s always you doing the talking, again she’s probably not that interested in talking with you. Although, it doesn’t necessarily mean she hates you it is unlikely that she likes you.

The best people to ask are her friends. Although it might be difficult to talk to one of them alone, if you have the chance simply ask the friend if everything is okay between you and the girl and if there’s anything you did wrong. If you’re polite about it, chances are the friend will be more likely to tell you. Just remember that whatever people tell you will be skewed by their own interpretations and so shouldn’t be your only evidence that she hates you.

This means don’t pester her with invites to go places, or ask her why she’s mad at you. Just let it be for a while. There is not proper amount of time to wait. You’ll have to use your judgment, but depending on how deep the hatred goes, it could be anywhere from a few weeks to a year.

Think about things you said. It could even be something as simple as a joke that she took the wrong way. Or it could be that your way of showing like for her is to ridicule her and tease her (the pulling pigtails on the playground thing). Perhaps she feels that you’re suffocating her with your attention. If you’re always around her trying to talk to her, it could get on her nerves. In which case you’re best off giving her space.

It’s best to apologize in private. Having an audience might force one or both of you to act in a certain way that you wouldn’t in private.

So when you see her around, say hello and ask how’s she’s doing. Leave it at that. Just enough interaction to show that you care and are interested in her well being and not enough interaction to get on her nerves.

If you’ve tried apologizing and giving her space, and being courteous and nothing has worked to get her to change her mind, continuing to try is just going to be unhappy business for both of you. Walk away. Remember, it doesn’t matter what she did, or said, or anything, you’re going to have to be the better person in this instance. So don’t start badmouthing her to other people. If people notice the friction between the two of you, and ask about it, simply say, “That’s between the two of us. "