Pros: good-looking, kind, someone I can talk to Cons: disorganized, immature at times, can be needy
For example, you might be in love if you overlook their messiness because you’re too busy appreciating their generosity or engaging conversations. On the other hand, you might not be in love if the sight of them makes feel warm and fuzzy, but you can’t imagine a future with them.
On the other hand, if you’re suspicious and feel the urge to spy on your crush, it’s not love. At least it’s not healthy love. It’s likely gone beyond infatuation into ‘obsession’. [10] X Research source
