Aesthetic attraction—Wow, he has nice hair. It’s appealing to look at. Romantic/sexual attraction—Wow, he has nice hair. I want to run my hands through it and kiss him and go out to dinner with him.

Think whether your friend shares your values. [1] X Research source Consider whether the person has the qualities you respect, such as being kind, thoughtful, supportive, and honest. [2] X Research source See whether your friend enjoys doing the same activities you like. [3] X Research source